Thoughts

"To reach out is to risk exposing feelings of your true self, to cry is to risk appearing emotional, to laugh is to risk acting like a fool.

To love is to risk not being love in return and to hope is to risk despair."

These few days hadn’t been that fantastic. I’d been shunning away from the social world. What I yearn for is just tranquility. I need a time that I could call ‘my own’ to keep my thoughts running. Truth to say, my brain hasn’t been functioning properly all these while. I just can’t THINK that well. Gullible? I would see myself as plain dumb instead. 
Its NEVER an easy task to make me talk to anyone about my problem. Trust isn’t that easy to gain afterall. I wouldn’t know if the person is genuinely concern or is just curious. There are times, I would really want someone to be there. I mean PHYSICALLY there. Not through social network or by mobile. Perhaps, some would think that mobile is the best substitute for appearance?

There are 5 different types of LOVE language and i did a simple quiz to find out mine. My main love language is Quality Time and Physical Touch. I wouldn't mind forking/sacrificing my time to be there for someone that matters, thats for sure. It really sucks when your love isn't reciprocate in the same way you expect. However, every individual is different, you can't command everyone to behave in the same way as you are. Thus, its really important to find out the Love Language of the other and understand from there. For me, Actions definitely speaks louder than words. Thats the reason why i score the least in Words of Affirmation.

Quality Time

In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

Physical Touch
This language isn't all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face - they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.